In Memorium
Brian Marais
(1935-2021)
Novato resident, Brian Marais, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, March 16, 2021, at the age of 86. Brian was a native of Johannesburg, South Africa, a descendant of French Huguenot emigrants who arrived at the Cape of Good Hope in the 1600’s. Like his forbears, throughout his life Brian displayed characteristics that combined native intelligence, a cheerful disposition, a constant desire to learn and experience new things, hospitality, a wry sense of humor, ingenuity and a unique blending of engineering skills and artistic expression. He spent the majority of his successful career –nearly 40 years-- as a mechanical and project design engineer with Bechtel Corporation.
Brian is survived by his beloved wife of 29 years, Pat Lepe’; his two daughters, Kim Marais (Jim Brooks) and Terrie Marais; his grandchildren Steven, Robert and Anthony; his step-children Ted Lepe’ (Elsy Guardado) and Denise Lepe’; and his step-grandchildren Chris, Jeremy, Blake and Valentina.
While living in San Francisco, in 1992, Brian met the love of his life, interior designer extraordinaire Pat Lepe’. Together Brian and Pat enjoyed hosting dinner parties for family and friends in their Novato home, with consummate dance aficionado Brian often romantically sweeping Pat off her feet, twirling her across the floor to the tune of their favorite songs.
Soccer was an important component of Brian’s life. He was a life-long fan of the Premiership’s Liverpool F.C., having made the pilgrimage to ‘The Reds’ Anfield Stadium. But Brian was more than a fan. In his heyday he played in the San Francisco Soccer Football League, and for years was a fixture playing and coaching with Real Marin S.C. in San Rafael. Even in his 80s, Brian would turn out for games, park himself in front of the goal, and demand that team-mates pass him the ball.
He was a Renaissance man who had a breathtaking romance with life. In so many areas –mechanical engineering, narrative and poetry, competitive soccer, music and dance, photographic composition—Brian shattered the matrix of the ordinary, and in so doing produced remarkable results and won many hearts.